Popular culture is preoccupied with the size of the penis, and it has generated a lot of feelings of inadequacy in the general male population, even though recent global studies have shown that the size of the average penis is significantly shorter than those porn stars that you may be trying to emulate.
Forget everything you may have learned from your favorite porn. Here are the top three advantages of having an average or smaller than average penis.
- Oral and Anal Sex. This is where you need to forget everything you’ve ever seen in a porn movie or video. For many women, oral and anal sex can be difficult if you have a larger than average penis.
Oral sex is often unpleasant for women if their partner has a larger than average penis. Any stimulation of the back of the throat triggers the gag reflex and can even lead to vomiting. This isn’t enjoyable for either the women or her partner, so it is best avoided. Having a smaller penis enables her to really employ her oral sex skills without gagging or choking.
Anal sex, on the other hand, can be difficult and painful if not approached properly. Even with plenty of foreplay and lube, it can be unpleasant or even impossible if your penis is too large. A smaller penis gives you the advantage in this situation, allowing you and your partner to enjoy anal sex without causing pain.
- Vaginal Sex. It is important to remember that the vagina, in its un-aroused state, is only about 3 inches deep. This can double when aroused, to a total of about 6 inches. The average penis length of men polled around the globe is 5.45 inches in length. For the average person, this is a perfect fit.
Above average penises can cause pain or even bleeding during vaginal sex because the penis will come into rough contact with the cervix. This muscle covers and protects the opening to the uterus and is not designed to take a beating from a large penis. No one likes having their cervix pummeled.
- Size Isn’t Everything. Contrary to popular belief, the size of your penis does not dictate your skill in bed. Men with larger than average penises tend to think that vaginal sex is all that is needed to satisfy a woman, simply because of the size of their penis.
Men with smaller penises, on the other hand, tend to be more considerate and thorough lovers, because they know that vaginal sex isn’t enough to satisfy their partner. They focus more on foreplay and oral sex, and tend to make sure that their partners come first, literally and figuratively.
When it comes right down to it, men with average or smaller than average penises tend to be more confident in the bedroom, simply because they know what it takes to completely satisfy their partner. They know there’s more to it than just thrusting away, and will take the time to please their partner rather than just focusing on their own pleasure. They strive to ‘make up’ for any perceived inadequacies in the size of their penis by not relying solely on vaginal intercourse.
No matter where you measure up, don’t let the size of your penis dictate your confidence or your skills in the bedroom. Spend some time learning what your partner likes, and make sure you communicate!
Talk before, during, and after sex if necessary to discuss what each of you likes, and how to implement these techniques in the bedroom. They say practice makes perfect, after all, and there’s nothing better than spending an afternoon in the bedroom practicing!
Don’t worry so much about the size of your penis. You’re not a porn star, and there’s no reason for you to try to live up to those unrealistic expectations of penis size. It really doesn’t matter as much as you think it does.